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3 Body Language Signs She is Attracted To You

Comments: 0June 15th, 2010 by

We can verbally tell someone that we are attracted to the other person, but a majority of the time it is being told through our body language. That is also the most reliable way of telling if a woman is attracted to you. Words can be deceived, but the body never lies (that's why we have lie detector tests!).

Not every girl will exhibit the same body language signs to show that she is attracted to you, but here are 3 body language signs to look out for. If you see her doing any of these, you can tell that she is attracted to you.

1. Hair touching
This is a classic. It has evolutionary merits, but all you need to know is that if she is playing with her hair while you're talking to her, she is attracted to you.

2. Interlocking Fingers
Whenever you hold a woman's hand, is she interlacing her fingers with yours or not? Or if you give her a high five and you hold your hand up, does she interlace her fingers with yours? These are simple physical tests you can do to test if she is attracted to you. If she interlocks her fingers with yours, she is definitely attracted.

3. Licking Her Lips
How do you know when a woman is ready to be kissed? Pay close attention to a her lips. Women will lick their lips, apply lipstick, or slightly pout their lips when they are ready to be kissed. These are subconscious invitations for you to make a move!

Reading body language the right way is really important when it comes to attracting women. Read them wrong and she will reject you. Read them correctly and your dating life will be turned upside down.

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Phone and Text Game Routine – Fortifying the Beaches

Comments: 0January 21st, 2010 by

In the book The Ultimate to Text and Phone Game you can read a new trick to make a phone number more solid. What that mean is that the girl is more likely to respond to your first call or text message. The technique is called Fortifying The Beaches and it will be described in this article. The first thing you have to do is get her phone number.  So a few minutes after you get her phone number, you continue the conversation. A few minutes later you pretend you received a text message but you are actually going to send her a text message. The first text will be something playful and flirty. It can be something like: "Hey this cute girl is talking to me, but I don't know how to flirt with her.  Help?" If you can use any references to your conversation, that would be even better. This is also called callback humor which is more explored in the book. In most cases the girl will check her phone and she will see you texted. Now you have to pretend like you know nothing about it and you just keep the conversation going. She will usually text you back something funny and you can do this flirting back and forth while you both pretend nothing is happening. What is so great about this is that you two already have a bunch of text messages going back and forth even before you two go separate ways. So the next day when you text her, you don't complete start cold because you two already communicated over text. This technique will make a lot of your phone numbers solid and having girls respond to your initial text message the next day. For more tips and tricks likes these, check out The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game.

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How To Flirt With Women – 5 Killer Tips

Comments: 0March 21st, 2009 by

Most of us, being boys, have flirted with women since 5th  grade.  Remember Tracey the first girl in class who started wearing a bra because she was developing her breasts earlier and faster than the other females?  How many times have we flashed a smile when she passed by, hoping to win a similar smile from her?  Alas, that’s flirting, my friend!

But how to flirt with women with the end goal of getting them to bed is an entirely different matter.
How to flirt with women to get them to bed will require you to abandon your conception of sophomoric flirting tactics and embrace a new set of seduction techniques that will make you a highly successful pick up artist, or PUA.

So, how to flirt with women and get them into bed?

First and foremost, the flirting that is required doesn’t involve flashing you white pearls and biggest smile.  It doesn’t involve showering women with praises.  It doesn’t involve drowning them with attention.

Those are flirting tactics that you should’ve left behind in 5th grade!

Here’s the deal – you will want a super hot babe, or SHB.  Don’t settle for anything less!  You wouldn’t want to go to bed with someone you find remotely attractive, right?  Since you’re going to hit on someone, might as well target the hottest chick in the bar, or the coffee shop, or the internet café, or wherever.

Now, the thing you should realize is that beautiful women are so used to attention and praises.  In fact, these SHBs actually EXPECT such attention and praises from each and every guy they meet.  And guess what?  They actually receive such attention and praises!

But not from you!

Oh no, not from you!  You’ll be different!

This is the very essence of how to flirt with women to get them in bed – by feigning disinterest.

Why is this method very effective?  It’s because you will be showing these SHBs something that they are not used to.  In effect, you will stand out.  You will be different from the other guys they have met before who tried to hit on them immediately.

They will find you mysterious.  They will find you unique.  And more importantly, they will find you challenging.  You will be able to turn the table on them.  Instead of you trying to win their attention, they will be the ones who will try to win yours.

It sounds crazy right now, I know.

But try to penetrate any PUA discussion and you will discover that this approach is the anchor of any seduction technique developed in the sub-culture of pick up experts all over the world.  You wouldn’t see any veteran PUA showering a girl with lavish words and undivided attention.  For PUAs, such is a practice of average frustrated chumps, AFCs who can’t get laid no matter how hard they try.

So, how to flirt with women by feigning disinterest?  Here are the 3 killer tips:

1. Push-pull approach. This technique involves showing interest with the girl one second, and extreme disinterest the next.  It’s a way of teasing her by pretending to give her what she wants, only to take it back later on.  In the middle of a conversation, you can take her hand and place it close to your heart, only to drop it all of a sudden to show her that you don’t fully trust her yet.

2. Performing a takeaway. A takeaway is a tactic whereby that a man employs after meeting a woman.  It involves leaving the woman for a significant period of time – say a few minutes or even an hour – to give the impression that he’s not interested, only to come back later on and restart the conversation.

3. Observing the “Group Theory.” The group theory suggests that a beautiful woman shall always be accompanied by a group during social gatherings.  In order to win the attention of the woman, the man must first win the acceptance of the group by pretending to be disinterested with the woman.

These are the flirting techniques that really work.  This is how to flirt with women based on tried and tested tactics.

Practice these approaches, and soon enough, you’ll be making the “full-close!”

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Body Language For Seduction – 4 Essential Techniques

Comments: 1March 14th, 2008 by

Just why is body language SO important for seduction? Have you ever noticed how some men can just walk into a room and everyone in the room (men and women) takes notice? They have what some people describe as a ‘presence’. An air of extreme confidence.

Extensive research has shown that over half of all communication is non-verbal or projected by your body language and under 10% of communication actually comes from what you say.

So what does this have to do with seduction?

Well, you can have all the best seduction techniques in the world, and be highly successful with women online for example, but if you used those same tricks in the real world WITHOUT projecting confidence – you would FAIL miserably.

Quite frankly, knowing how to use your body language is ESSENTIAL for attracting and seducing women.

Ok, let’s cover the 4 basic essentials;

1. Smile

Yes, smiling really does work, but don’t make it a fake smile. You’ll only come across as creepy and insincere. When you smile, try and imagine you’re smiling through your eyes. This can be very powerful in conveying warmth and self assurance and is essential in making women feel at ease. It doesn’t matter how bad a day she’s had, a big warm genuine smile will melt any ice queen.

Practice smiling at people and during casual conversation and you’ll see an instant positive results!

2. Open Palms

This is a top secret tip! If you want to be seen in a positive light or you’re defending yourself from an accusation that – god forbid – you might be a player! Keep your arms in front of you with your palms facing upwards. Open palms combined with a smile work very well on a subconscious level to suggest honesty and truthfulness. Gaining trust is an important early stage in building attraction before moving towards seduction.

3. Eye Contact

Be natural, don’t stare at her chest with your tongue hanging out! Seriously, if you CAN keep your eyes away from these areas it will send a subconscious message to her that you are a man in control of himself, and it will take more than her womanly powers to win you over.

Maintain eye contact for about 70% of conversation time. Good eye contact can create strong rapport which is vital for attraction and seduction.

4. Good Posture

Maintaining good posture sends out a message that you are healthy, confident and strong. Whatever you might hear, we are still driven by basic animal instincts, and women will subconsciously ‘scan’ a man straight away, to assess his suitability as a mate.

Simply pulling your shoulders back, sucking in your stomach and keeping your head up will give you an instant confidence boost – go on, try it NOW!

The Easiest Way to Tell for Sure if Someone is Attracted to You

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