You wont be surprised to know that hot women on dating sites are hammered with emails almost on an hourly basis. Fortunately the majority of the messages are pathetic and simply say – ‘you’re a hottie, want to chat’ or ‘how are you tonight’, so it shouldn’t be hard to stand out from the crowd with a witty and provocative message.
Keep an opening message short with a reason for messaging her. Try and find soemething in her profile that stands out and ask her a question about it.
Remember this is meant to be fun so keep it flirty! If she’s into skydiving tell her you can see she likes to live dangerously but can she iron a shirt?
It’s important to remember that there is no voice tone or body language with email so be careful not to come across as offensive and rude if you’re trying to be flirty and funny.
You might have heard the term NEG from pick up artists such as Mystery and Neil Strauss. This is basically a back handed compliment aimed at lowering a girls self esteem so she is more open to an approach.
Never ‘neg’ online – it doesn’t work. I am not a fan of the whole concept of negging and much prefer the ‘cocky funny’ approach of David Deangelo.
Always come from a position of confidence and assume she wants to meet you. It’s highly unlikely she’s talking to you to be polite; high quality women are far too busy for this.
Hot women on dating sites are often looking for something different from the guys they meet in bars and clubs so this is your chance to show you have attractive qualities even if you don’t have traditional good looks.
If you do start an email conversation with a girl online try to escalate to IM after about 2 or 3 emails. Always make sure to appear busy and don’t instantly reply to messages.
Build comfort with her on instant messenger then tell her you have stuff to do but you’ll call her when you are out so you can talk like grown ups. This will let her see you are confident and assuming she will happily give her your number.
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