Most of us, being boys, have flirted with women since 5th grade. Remember Tracey the first girl in class who started wearing a bra because she was developing her breasts earlier and faster than the other females? How many times have we flashed a smile when she passed by, hoping to win a similar smile from her? Alas, that’s flirting, my friend!
But how to flirt with women with the end goal of getting them to bed is an entirely different matter.
How to flirt with women to get them to bed will require you to abandon your conception of sophomoric flirting tactics and embrace a new set of seduction techniques that will make you a highly successful pick up artist, or PUA.
So, how to flirt with women and get them into bed?
First and foremost, the flirting that is required doesn’t involve flashing you white pearls and biggest smile. It doesn’t involve showering women with praises. It doesn’t involve drowning them with attention.
Those are flirting tactics that you should’ve left behind in 5th grade!
Here’s the deal – you will want a super hot babe, or SHB. Don’t settle for anything less! You wouldn’t want to go to bed with someone you find remotely attractive, right? Since you’re going to hit on someone, might as well target the hottest chick in the bar, or the coffee shop, or the internet café, or wherever.
Now, the thing you should realize is that beautiful women are so used to attention and praises. In fact, these SHBs actually EXPECT such attention and praises from each and every guy they meet. And guess what? They actually receive such attention and praises!
But not from you!
Oh no, not from you! You’ll be different!
This is the very essence of how to flirt with women to get them in bed – by feigning disinterest.
Why is this method very effective? It’s because you will be showing these SHBs something that they are not used to. In effect, you will stand out. You will be different from the other guys they have met before who tried to hit on them immediately.
They will find you mysterious. They will find you unique. And more importantly, they will find you challenging. You will be able to turn the table on them. Instead of you trying to win their attention, they will be the ones who will try to win yours.
It sounds crazy right now, I know.
But try to penetrate any PUA discussion and you will discover that this approach is the anchor of any seduction technique developed in the sub-culture of pick up experts all over the world. You wouldn’t see any veteran PUA showering a girl with lavish words and undivided attention. For PUAs, such is a practice of average frustrated chumps, AFCs who can’t get laid no matter how hard they try.
So, how to flirt with women by feigning disinterest? Here are the 3 killer tips:
1. Push-pull approach. This technique involves showing interest with the girl one second, and extreme disinterest the next. It’s a way of teasing her by pretending to give her what she wants, only to take it back later on. In the middle of a conversation, you can take her hand and place it close to your heart, only to drop it all of a sudden to show her that you don’t fully trust her yet.
2. Performing a takeaway. A takeaway is a tactic whereby that a man employs after meeting a woman. It involves leaving the woman for a significant period of time – say a few minutes or even an hour – to give the impression that he’s not interested, only to come back later on and restart the conversation.
3. Observing the “Group Theory.” The group theory suggests that a beautiful woman shall always be accompanied by a group during social gatherings. In order to win the attention of the woman, the man must first win the acceptance of the group by pretending to be disinterested with the woman.
These are the flirting techniques that really work. This is how to flirt with women based on tried and tested tactics.
Practice these approaches, and soon enough, you’ll be making the “full-close!”
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