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How To Read A Woman’s Body Language – Positive and Negative Signs

Comments: 0March 18th, 2009 by

The Negative Signs
Not all gestures point to the girl’s desire to be seduced. Every master seducer knows that, despite our best efforts, there are just some games you won’t be able to win. It is better to avoid these targets as early as possible so as not to waste your time – time which you can invest on a more willing target.

So, how do you read a girls body language when she doesn’t want to be seduced?  Here are the things you should look out for:

  • A blank stare. Her mind’s elsewhere, dude! She’s not interested in you!
  • Looking around the place for a cumulative period of more than 20 seconds. She’s either looking for someone more interesting, or she’s wary of being seen with you.
  • There are visible pauses before she answers the simplest of questions. She’s trying to look for the most polite way to turn you down.
  • An overall jerky disposition. She’ll flay her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point. She’d strongly nod her head when agreeing to something you mentioned. She’d make   sudden motions when emphasizing some matters. Your presence is agitating her – in a bad way.
  • Frowns during unguarded moments. Frowns can be cute and can be used by someone who’s playing hard-to-get, but when a girl frowns when she thinks no one’s looking, well, that’s something that just comes naturally.

The Positive Signs

Of course, there are gestures that instantly spell “She Is Attracted To You,” and you must learn how to read these gestures so that you can give her what she wants. Failure to read these gestures, or worse, failure to act on these gestures can potentially sink your seduction campaign.

Below are the signs you should look for when learning how to read a girls body language if she’s ready to be seduced:

  • An increase in the usually positive signs of attraction. Is she smiling more? Is she establishing eye contact for prolonged periods? Does she show genuine enthusiasm for the things you share? Even an AFC – an Average Frustrated Chump – will be able to see these signs!
  • Biting her lips. Distinguish this from her lips clenching each other. Biting is a subconscious gesture – and even a conscious gesture, if she’s a pro – that shows fascination and desire. Clenching of the lips is an attempt to restrain a frown.
  • Gestures that direct your eyes to the sensual parts of her body. Is she tilting her head to one side while listening to you, exposing her smooth neck in the process? Does her head slightly tilt down, with her chin pointing to her cleavage? Is she playing with her hair, driving attention to her ear?
  • Is she playing with the pendant of her necklace, hoping to hook your eyes into her breasts?
  • Is she stoking her lips, seemingly inviting you for along, passionate kiss? DO NOT fail to see these signs! They are the green light, the go signal for you to drop the routine and to go in for the kill!
  • Female-initiated body contact. If she’s not interested, she won’t touch you. If she’s not interested, she would consciously avoid any accidental touches as well. If her leg brushes against yours, if her hand caresses your arm, if she pinches your cheek or your nose under the pretense of adoration, then you would be foolish not to construe these gestures as signs of attraction.
  • Verbal interjections that sound like moans.

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Surefire Ways To Attract Women Sexually

Comments: 0March 17th, 2009 by

Many people believe that, to seduce a woman, a man must possess attractive physical traits.  Such a belief has caused many men to retreat to the darkness of isolation with broken hearts and broken dreams, when in fact they have never tried to win the heart of a woman, ever.

They have surrendered the good fight because they don’t see an Ashton Kutcher or a Brad Pitt when they look in the mirror, and they feel that such is a failure on their part.

Well, that’s a load of crap!

How to attract women sexually doesn’t depend on the face or the body that a man possesses.  How to attract women sexually depends on how well the man pushes the right buttons.

This is the philosophy behind the sub-culture that we call the society of pick up artists, or PUAs as they are more fondly called.  If you’d see their profiles on the internet, you’d discover that these blokes aren’t good looking people at all.  In fact, some of them even look like the biggest nerd way back in 5th grade.  Yes, the guy whom everyone thought would never, ever get laid!

But lo and behold, PUAs average 9.7 sexual encounters per week.  That’s more than one per day.

How do they do it?

Basically, they have mastered how to attract women sexually.  They have learned and perfected several routines that help them establish contact, win the attention, and successfully seduce the women they fancy.

Now, there are many methods on how to attract women sexually. Any PUA will tell an Average Frustrated Chump – or AFC if you will – that mastering all of these techniques will take time and a lot of practice.  Remember, getting a woman to bed is never instantaneous.  You don’t just wink at a girl and she’ll take off her panties for you.  It’s a PROCESS of wooing and there are many steps involved.

There are many tried and tested approaches when it comes to learning how to attract women sexually.  Below is one such method that has worked for renowned PUAs like Neil Strauss and the man known as Mystery.

1. Sarge with a wingman. Sarging is a PUA term that refers to going out for the sole purpose of picking up women. You need a wingman, a fellow PUA you can trust.  Your wingman will eventually help you establish first contact with a target and help you isolate the same if need be.  Your wingman will also help you get out of sticky situations, like when the target isn’t as attractive as you thought her to be and you need a quick way out.

2. Select your target. Easy enough.  Find a Super Hot Babe (SHB).  Don’t ever think she’s way out of your league.  It’s such kind of mentality that makes men fail even before they try.

3. Tease her by showing disinterest. I know what you’re thinking – “what?  Show disinterest?”  This is because SHBs are so used to attention that they actually expect guys to shower them with the same.  Stand out!  Be different!  If she’s with a bunch of guys, talk to them about guy things.  Let her feel alienated.  Turn the tables on her.  Soon enough, she’ll think of you as a challenge and she’ll open up her defenses.

4. Isolate the subject. If she’s with people, your wingman should help you separate them from her.  The bottom line is that YOU and HER should be left alone.  She’ll be more vulnerable this way, and there will be less distractions.

5. Establish an emotional connection. Make her feel that you understand her.  Make her feel that maybe – just maybe – you guys share a bond that is hard to find.  But don’t be a sissy in doing this.  Don’t go all “emo” and don’t ever talk like a gal pal.  Be strong.  Be manly.  Still feign a little disinterest.  But LISTEN.  Deliver follow up questions that will make her know that you’re listening to every word she says.

6. Establish a physical connection. When she has become comfortable with you, start touching her – subtly at first.  Press her hand to emphasize a point.  Caress her arm to reassure her when she needs reassurance.  Nudge her leg with yours when you both share a laugh.  If she doesn’t resist, intensify your advances.  Women love being touched – or at least they love being touched by people they are fond of.  If you manage to establish an emotional connection with her, this part should be easy.

7. Go in for the kill. She’s primed for seduction.  Your place or hers?

How to attract women sexually depends on how well you employ these PUA methods.  You have learned one such method.  Try it out.  Don’t let your fears stop you, as I assure you, those fears are baseless.

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GuyGetsGirl – Why I’m NOT Recommending GuyGetsGirl

Comments: 0March 13th, 2009 by

Why I’m NOT recommending GuyGetsGirl…

It’s not written by the hot girl in the picture, it’s written by a clever internet marketer pretending to be a girl! I will probably get a lot of hate mail about this post but I don’t really care. The reason this book is so popluar is not because it’s any good. No, the reason it’s so successful, is it’s seductive sales page, and the huge army of affiliates that are paid handsome commissions on every sale.

Sure, if you want girls to think you are a wuss and run rings round you then yes, go buy it, here’s the link - GuyGetsGirl

Alternatively, stay on the right track and sign up for my mailing list here

If you really want to find out what women find attractive in a man then get some female friends! BUT, don’t take any notice of what they SAY attracts them to men, instead, observe the kind of men they are ACTUALLY responding to, and who they end up sleeping with.

I’ve had some great conversations with my female friends about what attracts them to a man. If I ask a girl about why she went to dinner with a particular guy I usually get answers like;

He’s really sweet
He paid!
He’s good looking
He’s rich
He bought me flowers….

Blah, blah, blah

Then I ask if they slept with him and I get answers like;

NO!
NO!
and….NO!

HOWEVER, if they are half asleep with a silly grin on there face then I know they are thinking about the great guy they SLEPT with last night. When I dig a little deeper I find out this guy was not rich, did not buy her any gifts, was not that good looking…..

‘he just had something about him’

So what is this ‘something’?

It means he is an Alpha Male, is interesting, has good conversation, is funny and doesn’t NEED women….. but generally GETS them.

Fortunately, any man can become a man like this once they get a grip of what’s known as Inner Game.

Inner Game is all about what’s going on inside – how we think of ourselves, how we talk to ourselves, self-esteem, confidence, our belief system, etc.

One of the best ‘inner game’ guru’s is a guy called Carlos Xuma. He’s is hugely respected in the self help and seduction communities so do yourself a massive favour and forget guygetsgirl and check out Carlos Xuma here.

If you really want a female perspective and don’t have female friends you can discuss this with, check out Dr.Z on Scoring by Victoria Zdrok. She’s a former Playboy Playmate.

Her book is written specifically towards models, actresses, centerfolds, etc. She reveals a lot of things most men don’t know about 9s and 10s, and bases her methods on being a hot woman and proven psychology.

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How To Attract and Seduce Beautiful Women – 3 Vital Steps to Success

Comments: 0February 28th, 2009 by

Ok guys, who wants to learn how to attract and seduce lots of beautiful, high quality women with ease? When I say a beautiful, high quality woman, I don’t just mean a playboy model, I’m talking about someone who is emotionally mature, and looks after themselves as well as being physically beautiful. In other words a ’10′!

Let’s delve a little deeper into this.

Before you can begin to attract these kinds of women, there are 3 essential steps you must take. If you do these you WILL start to achieve mind blowing results in your quest to attract and seduce high quality women.

1. Wake up and take control – You need to get a grip of the natural urges that drive your behavior. Yes, you know what I’m talking about! This is the key to your success with women, especially a ’10′. High quality women want men who ARE rabid BUT only at the appropriate time!

I can’t stress this enough.

So many men crumble when they encounter a high quality women. Why? Because they aren’t in control of themselves. Quality women will sense this immediately…and LEAVE!

2. Get out of your comfort zone - This can be the hardest obstacle for guys who want to know how to attract and seduce the best women. You need to face up to things that make you uncomfortable and break out of the habitual patterns that hold you back.

3. Embrace change in yourself - This means being brutally honest with yourself and about why you do what you do, and the patterns of belief that hold you back. You will only ever attract beautiful girls if you believe you deserve it. Don’t go after hot women because you think it will make you feel better or fill a gap in your life.

Become the best man you can be, in other words become a high quality man and the high quality women will seek YOU out.

Hopefully you can see what I’m getting at here. Forget sneaky pickup tactics and stupid chat up lines. They will only get you so far and you’ll soon get found out as a fraud.

Take these 3 steps as the first VITAL stages in learning how to attract and seduce beautiful women.

I will be going into these steps in great detail future posts.

In the meantime Check out – The Secret Love Strategy

N

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4 Stupidly Simple Steps for Overcoming Approach Anxiety

Comments: 0February 25th, 2009 by

It’s a primal fear that sends shivers down our spines and turns even the most confident of men into nervous wrecks. When it comes to how to approach women, the biggest stumbling block for most men is getting over what is known as approach anxiety.

Fortunately, it’s easily overcome. Read on…

Take Small Steps – Don’t turn every approach into some life changing event. Forget about getting numbers or initiating attraction and seduction techniques when you first start out. Just be casual and ask simple questions.

Get used to simply opening conversations with as many women as possible. Once you get confident with initiating conversations you can progress to the next stages of seduction.

Reframe it – Don’t approach every girl as if she’s your future wife! Just be a fun and sociable guy who talks to everyone whether they’re hot or not. If you happen to strike up a conversation with a great looking girl then that’s a bonus…. for her obviously!

Don’t Be Too Choosy – Don’t lurk around in the background waiting for some super hot model to appear. Approach and talk to as many women as possible regardless of looks. When that hottie does appear, you will be loosened up and ready to give her the full benefit of your conversation.

Approach 1 Women Everyday – This is arguably the single most important step to overcoming approach anxiety. Make it a daily task to approach at least 1 woman until it becomes the most natural thing in the world.

You don’t need to strike up an hour long in-depth conversation about the economy. If you’re in a queue at Starbucks and there’s a girl behind you, just comment on the time the barista is taking and ask her what her favorite coffee is.

Keep it simple

This does require commitment but this will boost your confidence enormously.

I’ll be delving much deeper into this in future posts but in the meantime check this out -

How to Approach Women

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How To Get a Girl To Like You

Comments: 0May 17th, 2008 by

3 Secret Tricks To Instantly Attract Any Woman

It’s frustrating when you like a girl but you can’t seem to get her interested in you, so it’s essential you know how to get a girl to like you – instantly. This article will give you 3 great techniques to spark attraction and get a girl to like you. So let’s dive in….

1. Tease Her :

This is amazingly powerful trick to get a girl to like you especially if it’s a particularly stuck up girl. I used this technique on a stunning Brazilian model in a nightclub once. She was getting a lot of attention from the guys and I did something totally outrageous.

I moved close to her and started sniffing the air around her until I knew she was looking at me, then I turned to her, looked her in the eye and said…..

‘Did you blow off?’

‘What??? No way!’ she replied.

I said – ‘Well there’s a funny smell round here and you sure LOOK guilty’

She crumbled and started laughing. The rest they say…. is history. We dated for a while and she still pesters me. I still call her f*rt girl.

Be Confident :

If you use the previous trick without being confident it will never work. Women are always attracted to confident men, regardless of looks.

When I accused the brazilian on blowing off, I made sure I said it without laughing. However, I did give her a wry smile which told her I was confident enough to do this without fear of her reaction.
A lot of men lack confidence but fortunately this can be EASILY overcome and I tackle that in my newsletter.

Be Indifferent :

One sure fire way to get a girl NOT to like you is to show interest straight away. After using the previous 2 steps to get a girl to like you it’s important to take a step back. This might seem strange guys, but believe me, girls like a challenge.

I know it goes against what seems natural BUT once you’ve sparked the initial attraction with the girl you like, go speak to your friends, or even better – other girls!

Try it and see what happens!

Check out – The Secret Love Strategy

Nick

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Body Language For Seduction – 4 Essential Techniques

Comments: 1March 14th, 2008 by

Just why is body language SO important for seduction? Have you ever noticed how some men can just walk into a room and everyone in the room (men and women) takes notice? They have what some people describe as a ‘presence’. An air of extreme confidence.

Extensive research has shown that over half of all communication is non-verbal or projected by your body language and under 10% of communication actually comes from what you say.

So what does this have to do with seduction?

Well, you can have all the best seduction techniques in the world, and be highly successful with women online for example, but if you used those same tricks in the real world WITHOUT projecting confidence – you would FAIL miserably.

Quite frankly, knowing how to use your body language is ESSENTIAL for attracting and seducing women.

Ok, let’s cover the 4 basic essentials;

1. Smile

Yes, smiling really does work, but don’t make it a fake smile. You’ll only come across as creepy and insincere. When you smile, try and imagine you’re smiling through your eyes. This can be very powerful in conveying warmth and self assurance and is essential in making women feel at ease. It doesn’t matter how bad a day she’s had, a big warm genuine smile will melt any ice queen.

Practice smiling at people and during casual conversation and you’ll see an instant positive results!

2. Open Palms

This is a top secret tip! If you want to be seen in a positive light or you’re defending yourself from an accusation that – god forbid – you might be a player! Keep your arms in front of you with your palms facing upwards. Open palms combined with a smile work very well on a subconscious level to suggest honesty and truthfulness. Gaining trust is an important early stage in building attraction before moving towards seduction.

3. Eye Contact

Be natural, don’t stare at her chest with your tongue hanging out! Seriously, if you CAN keep your eyes away from these areas it will send a subconscious message to her that you are a man in control of himself, and it will take more than her womanly powers to win you over.

Maintain eye contact for about 70% of conversation time. Good eye contact can create strong rapport which is vital for attraction and seduction.

4. Good Posture

Maintaining good posture sends out a message that you are healthy, confident and strong. Whatever you might hear, we are still driven by basic animal instincts, and women will subconsciously ‘scan’ a man straight away, to assess his suitability as a mate.

Simply pulling your shoulders back, sucking in your stomach and keeping your head up will give you an instant confidence boost – go on, try it NOW!

The Easiest Way to Tell for Sure if Someone is Attracted to You

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