Archive for May, 2009

If you are no longer in your 20′s and you want to attract and date hot young women then listen up! It’s all too common for men to think they need to be rich, famous or have the techniques or a super pickup artist to date beautiful young women.

This is total BS!

This kind of crap is spread about by older women and young guys who are scared of a bit of competition. Even older guys spread this myth to reinforce their own fear of failure and rejection.

Any uptight women reading this might shoot me down when I say this, but for the most part dating younger women is more fun! Why? Becuase they are less jaded, less cynical, have less baggage and they are fun loving and up for adventure.

Ok, let me give you a couple of awesome tips for getting younger hotties……

1) Don’t try and be 21 if your 41 – The classic mistake older guys make is they go to clubs full of 20 somethings wearing ‘cool’ t-shirts and spouting slightly out of date ‘street slang’. Don’t try and beat young women at their own game. They’ll just class you as a loser and walk away. Play to your strengths and demonstrate your worldly experience. Talk about art, travel and adventure. Don’t wear ‘cool’ clothes, wear a classy suit that exudes power.

Power and success are a huge turn on for younger women. Hang out in cool wine bars, not loud clubs. In short, operate on your turf and on your terms.

2) Turn the tables on her - Rather than being a sad loser chasing young chicks, get those hot young chicks chasing you. How? By demonstrating you are a man with options who chooses to be single. Make her show you that she’s a classy sophisticated girl who needs to raise her game to your level rather than you going down to hers.

As ever, successful seduction is all about attitude without arrogance. Be confident in who you are and the girls will want to be around you.

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Nick N

What does NLP stand for? Well, it’s easier to describe than to explain, but let me try. NLP means Neuro-Linguistic Programming, in other words it is the act of using body language, modulation and tone of voice to elicit someones attetion.
There are several strategies that you can try that will guarantee your chances of seducing a woman and winning that date.

Seducing a woman requires many different techniques. Different communication skills types are required to fuel their desires and fantasies. Inter-personal communication with a sense humor is a must. Listening & comprehending what a woman says is necessary for basic NLP and is the first step in seduction.

Most people, if not all, don’t know that NLP Seduction is about the fact that you as an individual can train your own mind to act the way you want in certain situations. For instance, you can program your mind to be attractive and catch the attention of the woman you are trying to seduce. In that way, she can easily fall for that highly attractive persona in you that will lead to a successful seduction.

NLP is about creating that good “First Impressions”. If you show a bad first impression, you might have a hard time winning that so called “special connection” with the woman you want.

Confidence is also a critical factor that you must consider. It’s all about the way you present yourself, the way dress and the way you carry yourself. It doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it!

Remember, you are seducing the woman you like so talk sensibly, manage the tone of your voice. This is where NLP comes in, you need NLP seduction to command body gestures, language and appearance. Boost your self esteem. Most women can sense if you are naive and weak because it shows on your voice and appearance, thus giving them a reason to reject you.

In conclusion, using NLP techiniques will ensure you successfully seduce your dream girl. You just need to practice and apply these techniques in your day to day life. You can ask your female friends to judge your progress until you perfect everything. Of course, this will not happen overnight. You need to constantly practice the techniques learned and use them in an appropriate way. Just don’t forget to wear that confidence in you and you’ll be the next happiest guy in your neighborhood together with the girl of your dreams.

Guest writer – Prince