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How To Flirt With Women – 5 Killer Tips

Comments: 0March 21st, 2009 by

Most of us, being boys, have flirted with women since 5th  grade.  Remember Tracey the first girl in class who started wearing a bra because she was developing her breasts earlier and faster than the other females?  How many times have we flashed a smile when she passed by, hoping to win a similar smile from her?  Alas, that’s flirting, my friend!

But how to flirt with women with the end goal of getting them to bed is an entirely different matter.
How to flirt with women to get them to bed will require you to abandon your conception of sophomoric flirting tactics and embrace a new set of seduction techniques that will make you a highly successful pick up artist, or PUA.

So, how to flirt with women and get them into bed?

First and foremost, the flirting that is required doesn’t involve flashing you white pearls and biggest smile.  It doesn’t involve showering women with praises.  It doesn’t involve drowning them with attention.

Those are flirting tactics that you should’ve left behind in 5th grade!

Here’s the deal – you will want a super hot babe, or SHB.  Don’t settle for anything less!  You wouldn’t want to go to bed with someone you find remotely attractive, right?  Since you’re going to hit on someone, might as well target the hottest chick in the bar, or the coffee shop, or the internet café, or wherever.

Now, the thing you should realize is that beautiful women are so used to attention and praises.  In fact, these SHBs actually EXPECT such attention and praises from each and every guy they meet.  And guess what?  They actually receive such attention and praises!

But not from you!

Oh no, not from you!  You’ll be different!

This is the very essence of how to flirt with women to get them in bed – by feigning disinterest.

Why is this method very effective?  It’s because you will be showing these SHBs something that they are not used to.  In effect, you will stand out.  You will be different from the other guys they have met before who tried to hit on them immediately.

They will find you mysterious.  They will find you unique.  And more importantly, they will find you challenging.  You will be able to turn the table on them.  Instead of you trying to win their attention, they will be the ones who will try to win yours.

It sounds crazy right now, I know.

But try to penetrate any PUA discussion and you will discover that this approach is the anchor of any seduction technique developed in the sub-culture of pick up experts all over the world.  You wouldn’t see any veteran PUA showering a girl with lavish words and undivided attention.  For PUAs, such is a practice of average frustrated chumps, AFCs who can’t get laid no matter how hard they try.

So, how to flirt with women by feigning disinterest?  Here are the 3 killer tips:

1. Push-pull approach. This technique involves showing interest with the girl one second, and extreme disinterest the next.  It’s a way of teasing her by pretending to give her what she wants, only to take it back later on.  In the middle of a conversation, you can take her hand and place it close to your heart, only to drop it all of a sudden to show her that you don’t fully trust her yet.

2. Performing a takeaway. A takeaway is a tactic whereby that a man employs after meeting a woman.  It involves leaving the woman for a significant period of time – say a few minutes or even an hour – to give the impression that he’s not interested, only to come back later on and restart the conversation.

3. Observing the “Group Theory.” The group theory suggests that a beautiful woman shall always be accompanied by a group during social gatherings.  In order to win the attention of the woman, the man must first win the acceptance of the group by pretending to be disinterested with the woman.

These are the flirting techniques that really work.  This is how to flirt with women based on tried and tested tactics.

Practice these approaches, and soon enough, you’ll be making the “full-close!”

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How To Read A Woman’s Body Language – Positive and Negative Signs

Comments: 0March 18th, 2009 by

The Negative Signs
Not all gestures point to the girl’s desire to be seduced. Every master seducer knows that, despite our best efforts, there are just some games you won’t be able to win. It is better to avoid these targets as early as possible so as not to waste your time – time which you can invest on a more willing target.

So, how do you read a girls body language when she doesn’t want to be seduced?  Here are the things you should look out for:

  • A blank stare. Her mind’s elsewhere, dude! She’s not interested in you!
  • Looking around the place for a cumulative period of more than 20 seconds. She’s either looking for someone more interesting, or she’s wary of being seen with you.
  • There are visible pauses before she answers the simplest of questions. She’s trying to look for the most polite way to turn you down.
  • An overall jerky disposition. She’ll flay her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point. She’d strongly nod her head when agreeing to something you mentioned. She’d make   sudden motions when emphasizing some matters. Your presence is agitating her – in a bad way.
  • Frowns during unguarded moments. Frowns can be cute and can be used by someone who’s playing hard-to-get, but when a girl frowns when she thinks no one’s looking, well, that’s something that just comes naturally.

The Positive Signs

Of course, there are gestures that instantly spell “She Is Attracted To You,” and you must learn how to read these gestures so that you can give her what she wants. Failure to read these gestures, or worse, failure to act on these gestures can potentially sink your seduction campaign.

Below are the signs you should look for when learning how to read a girls body language if she’s ready to be seduced:

  • An increase in the usually positive signs of attraction. Is she smiling more? Is she establishing eye contact for prolonged periods? Does she show genuine enthusiasm for the things you share? Even an AFC – an Average Frustrated Chump – will be able to see these signs!
  • Biting her lips. Distinguish this from her lips clenching each other. Biting is a subconscious gesture – and even a conscious gesture, if she’s a pro – that shows fascination and desire. Clenching of the lips is an attempt to restrain a frown.
  • Gestures that direct your eyes to the sensual parts of her body. Is she tilting her head to one side while listening to you, exposing her smooth neck in the process? Does her head slightly tilt down, with her chin pointing to her cleavage? Is she playing with her hair, driving attention to her ear?
  • Is she playing with the pendant of her necklace, hoping to hook your eyes into her breasts?
  • Is she stoking her lips, seemingly inviting you for along, passionate kiss? DO NOT fail to see these signs! They are the green light, the go signal for you to drop the routine and to go in for the kill!
  • Female-initiated body contact. If she’s not interested, she won’t touch you. If she’s not interested, she would consciously avoid any accidental touches as well. If her leg brushes against yours, if her hand caresses your arm, if she pinches your cheek or your nose under the pretense of adoration, then you would be foolish not to construe these gestures as signs of attraction.
  • Verbal interjections that sound like moans.

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Surefire Ways To Attract Women Sexually

Comments: 0March 17th, 2009 by

Many people believe that, to seduce a woman, a man must possess attractive physical traits.  Such a belief has caused many men to retreat to the darkness of isolation with broken hearts and broken dreams, when in fact they have never tried to win the heart of a woman, ever.

They have surrendered the good fight because they don’t see an Ashton Kutcher or a Brad Pitt when they look in the mirror, and they feel that such is a failure on their part.

Well, that’s a load of crap!

How to attract women sexually doesn’t depend on the face or the body that a man possesses.  How to attract women sexually depends on how well the man pushes the right buttons.

This is the philosophy behind the sub-culture that we call the society of pick up artists, or PUAs as they are more fondly called.  If you’d see their profiles on the internet, you’d discover that these blokes aren’t good looking people at all.  In fact, some of them even look like the biggest nerd way back in 5th grade.  Yes, the guy whom everyone thought would never, ever get laid!

But lo and behold, PUAs average 9.7 sexual encounters per week.  That’s more than one per day.

How do they do it?

Basically, they have mastered how to attract women sexually.  They have learned and perfected several routines that help them establish contact, win the attention, and successfully seduce the women they fancy.

Now, there are many methods on how to attract women sexually. Any PUA will tell an Average Frustrated Chump – or AFC if you will – that mastering all of these techniques will take time and a lot of practice.  Remember, getting a woman to bed is never instantaneous.  You don’t just wink at a girl and she’ll take off her panties for you.  It’s a PROCESS of wooing and there are many steps involved.

There are many tried and tested approaches when it comes to learning how to attract women sexually.  Below is one such method that has worked for renowned PUAs like Neil Strauss and the man known as Mystery.

1. Sarge with a wingman. Sarging is a PUA term that refers to going out for the sole purpose of picking up women. You need a wingman, a fellow PUA you can trust.  Your wingman will eventually help you establish first contact with a target and help you isolate the same if need be.  Your wingman will also help you get out of sticky situations, like when the target isn’t as attractive as you thought her to be and you need a quick way out.

2. Select your target. Easy enough.  Find a Super Hot Babe (SHB).  Don’t ever think she’s way out of your league.  It’s such kind of mentality that makes men fail even before they try.

3. Tease her by showing disinterest. I know what you’re thinking – “what?  Show disinterest?”  This is because SHBs are so used to attention that they actually expect guys to shower them with the same.  Stand out!  Be different!  If she’s with a bunch of guys, talk to them about guy things.  Let her feel alienated.  Turn the tables on her.  Soon enough, she’ll think of you as a challenge and she’ll open up her defenses.

4. Isolate the subject. If she’s with people, your wingman should help you separate them from her.  The bottom line is that YOU and HER should be left alone.  She’ll be more vulnerable this way, and there will be less distractions.

5. Establish an emotional connection. Make her feel that you understand her.  Make her feel that maybe – just maybe – you guys share a bond that is hard to find.  But don’t be a sissy in doing this.  Don’t go all “emo” and don’t ever talk like a gal pal.  Be strong.  Be manly.  Still feign a little disinterest.  But LISTEN.  Deliver follow up questions that will make her know that you’re listening to every word she says.

6. Establish a physical connection. When she has become comfortable with you, start touching her – subtly at first.  Press her hand to emphasize a point.  Caress her arm to reassure her when she needs reassurance.  Nudge her leg with yours when you both share a laugh.  If she doesn’t resist, intensify your advances.  Women love being touched – or at least they love being touched by people they are fond of.  If you manage to establish an emotional connection with her, this part should be easy.

7. Go in for the kill. She’s primed for seduction.  Your place or hers?

How to attract women sexually depends on how well you employ these PUA methods.  You have learned one such method.  Try it out.  Don’t let your fears stop you, as I assure you, those fears are baseless.

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GuyGetsGirl – Why I’m NOT Recommending GuyGetsGirl

Comments: 0March 13th, 2009 by

Why I’m NOT recommending GuyGetsGirl…

It’s not written by the hot girl in the picture, it’s written by a clever internet marketer pretending to be a girl! I will probably get a lot of hate mail about this post but I don’t really care. The reason this book is so popluar is not because it’s any good. No, the reason it’s so successful, is it’s seductive sales page, and the huge army of affiliates that are paid handsome commissions on every sale.

Sure, if you want girls to think you are a wuss and run rings round you then yes, go buy it, here’s the link - GuyGetsGirl

Alternatively, stay on the right track and sign up for my mailing list here

If you really want to find out what women find attractive in a man then get some female friends! BUT, don’t take any notice of what they SAY attracts them to men, instead, observe the kind of men they are ACTUALLY responding to, and who they end up sleeping with.

I’ve had some great conversations with my female friends about what attracts them to a man. If I ask a girl about why she went to dinner with a particular guy I usually get answers like;

He’s really sweet
He paid!
He’s good looking
He’s rich
He bought me flowers….

Blah, blah, blah

Then I ask if they slept with him and I get answers like;

NO!
NO!
and….NO!

HOWEVER, if they are half asleep with a silly grin on there face then I know they are thinking about the great guy they SLEPT with last night. When I dig a little deeper I find out this guy was not rich, did not buy her any gifts, was not that good looking…..

‘he just had something about him’

So what is this ‘something’?

It means he is an Alpha Male, is interesting, has good conversation, is funny and doesn’t NEED women….. but generally GETS them.

Fortunately, any man can become a man like this once they get a grip of what’s known as Inner Game.

Inner Game is all about what’s going on inside – how we think of ourselves, how we talk to ourselves, self-esteem, confidence, our belief system, etc.

One of the best ‘inner game’ guru’s is a guy called Carlos Xuma. He’s is hugely respected in the self help and seduction communities so do yourself a massive favour and forget guygetsgirl and check out Carlos Xuma here.

If you really want a female perspective and don’t have female friends you can discuss this with, check out Dr.Z on Scoring by Victoria Zdrok. She’s a former Playboy Playmate.

Her book is written specifically towards models, actresses, centerfolds, etc. She reveals a lot of things most men don’t know about 9s and 10s, and bases her methods on being a hot woman and proven psychology.

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